I took very little in the beginning. Then when I was going to school and looked into some help with daycare 18 hours a week while I worked, I was told I should formally file for support. I was hesitant because I knew that it would mean more trouble for me, but then I thought, " Because I breathe, they criticize me, so why not." I figured I had saved him $35,000 over a nine year period.
I only took him there once. All the other times he took me in for reduction.... I even volunteered a higher reduction, asking him, in front of his lawyer, to stop the alienation. She seemed to get it, but he did not. The last time he took me in he brought my daughter along. I walked in and there she sat. He said to her, " Go ahead and say hi to your mom." He controls her and has hurt her all through this process. With a strong interest in child development, I have written him and her ( his wife) to plese stop and explained how these behaviors hurt our daughter. But everytime I wrote, they pumped the assault on her emotional life and mine even more. Every letter I wrote, I also sent to the conciliator's offfice, but they seemed to ignore them because they did not acknowledge them. Very sad for my daughter and all the other children and targeted parents all over the world.
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